Evan, as a convenience to both the people looking for games and those not, I think it would be a good idea to add an extra column in the nhl94online.com contact lists that indicates whether or not a person minds being contacted for random games.
Maybe add a sort link on the page, too, to sort the want-to-play guys to the top.
(contact list for GENS: http://www.nhl94online.com/html/online_players.php?lg=gens)